Surgery Update

The date for my latest surgery has been moved up to Thursday, December 8th. Please keep me in your prayers.

Joe is Home!

Joe came home last night - only 10 days post op! He is feeling pretty good, but still uncomfortable.

Please remember that you need to be in great health to come visit - he would love to have visitors!

Here are some of his restrictions:

No travel for a year

No crowds (i.e. church, eating out) for 4-6 weeks

For the next 6-8 weeks, we could really use some help with the following:

- staying with him during the day as he needs someone to be with him 24/7 (we are able to cover a lot of this as a family but have some gaps). Please contact Fay if you can help out.

- driving him to lab work (no driving for 4 weeks)

- meals

THANKFUL!

Last night Sophia (Joe's oldest grandchild, age 8) prayed this:

"Thank you God for what happened on Friday. It was just a great day for our whole family!"

Day 3 Post Op

The following is an update from Elizabeth:

I went to see him last night. His color is much better - eyes not nearly as yellow, cheeks and lips are red like a healthy person, tan color, not yellow. He is more alert execpt when he gets pain meds - dozes right away for that but as he awakens he continues the conversation where he left off.

Yesterday he had liquids. Perhaps today solid foods. They are assessing his ability to tolerate things and also looking for digestive functions to return.

He called this AM at 6 - I thought something terrible had happened that they were calling so early! He was lifted into a chair and sitting up for the first time - he called, not the staff. He had to have 4 lines removed to make that happen and the attending was called to the ER too often to get it done earlier yesterday. Now it's done.

Dr. Maley, surgeon, came in while I was there. He was very pleased with the progress. Said liver labs will be normal within 2 days. Normal MELD score is 6 and he expects that in 2 days - can you believe it? (his MELD score got up to 35 and 40 is the highest possible)

Mom counted over 80 staples. No dressing. He showed me the staples without being prompted. I guess it's his version of battle wounds.

The Day After

We received word that Joe had a pretty good night. When we got to see him briefly last night, he was still sedated. He is awake today and Fay is on her way down to be with him. All of the kids decided to wait as he still has the breathing tube in and needs a lot of rest today.

We had already planned to be working at their old house today and tomorrow to get it cleaned out so we can put it on the market, so that's what we're up to today. We will probably go visit him sometime tomorrow, although none of us can bring our kids (the grandkids) because he is in ICU recovery.

There is so much more to share about how all of this came together, but today it still feels surreal that this really happened! He was officially on the donor list for only 2 weeks and 4 days!

One quick thing - when we met with the doctor last night, we were just so amazed at the dedication it takes to pull something like this off. The surgeon we met with at 9:30 last night was the same one that had flown somewhere to view the liver at 4:00 that morning! We are so thankful for such a skilled, dedicated person that was also willing to meet with us and answer all of our questions. The team at Jefferson has been nothing short of AMAZING!

Joe is out of surgery!

We just met with the surgeon - he said everything went very well. The liver has been performing well. Just in case you're wondering, the liver stays in place by surface tension since the fascia has been cut away (that was Jon's burning question).

The jaundice should resolve by the end of the hospital stay which could be somewhere between 8 days and 2 weeks.

We are down in another waiting room and should get to see him in about 30 minutes. He will still be sedated and be on a breathing tube. They say the breathing tube could come out tomorrow afternoon if everything goes well.

More updates to come as we're able...

The latest

We have gotten several updates throughout the day. It seems that all is going well - the new liver is in and is working. We had a wonderful day together as a family! Jeremy, Elizabeth, Jon, Dawn, Sophia & Anthony arrived in time to see Pappy/Pops/Pop-Pop before he headed into surgery - we got to spend some private time with him and Grammy and all prayed together. We parted ways at about 10:30 a.m.

Jeremy brought some cookies, Elizabeth brought some bagel bits and Joel and Shannon arrived around 11:30 with donuts - it was definitely indicative of a DiCandilo crisis - no carb left behind!

We went to the Reading Terminal market for lunch and then hung out in a park - it was such a beautiful day. Erin, Lily and Wil arrived around 5:30 and we headed to dinner and to watch the Phillies game. Fay has been receiving calls from the OR nurse throughout the day letting us know how things are going.

Jer & Erin just took the kids home and the rest of us are now sitting in the waiting room as we anticipate getting an update from the doctor at 8:30. We hope to be able to see him briefly before heading home tonight.

It's been a long day but a very hopeful exciting day. We are all so thankful for the prayers and support we have felt throughout the day!